S10 just said to me... "Mom, you never get mad and leave us..." (tears) I just said, "No, S10. I don't. But, remember that everyone handles anger differently. Why don't you just try to remember this feeling, in case you ever want to do it that way... It's hurtful to those left behind."
I love that last line you told him, that is very good.
Do you pray with your children? IMHO, your H needs prayers, he is really messed up, and sometimes people just can't handle the choices that they make and it does hurt other people. He is in denial that he is hurting his children because he can't face up to it, and all he can think of is the pain he has and the messed up life he's created. believe me, he is not happy, his life sucks.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
