I think you have the basic answers you are looking for. Noticed sustained change. Strength, confidence, self care and taking care of responsibilities and not catering to their fog.

What brings them back is essentially what brought them to you in the first place. Either way if you follow the principles you will get through it. Not over it, but through and probably be a better person no matter the result. Plus you can look at yourself and say I did the best I could to stand up for what I believe in! Trust me any spouse male or female will respect someone who takes a stand, maybe not right away but eventually!


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!