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think your H is tired of being treated like a wife and wants to feel like the man of the house. When the roles are reversed like this.....it does seem to go against what nature designed. He even said it was not normal.


Good point! Add this to the plan- of course it will feel strange massaging his ego while he is having an EA but it is part of the whole plan.

So what do you think will help him feel like a man... asking input on paying bills? fixing stuff? Men like to feel needed, provide, protect, and take care of their family and feel appreciated for their work. He is crazy about DD- is he a good dad?


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004