What should I be saying to her sandi2 when she asks why I have faith that this can come back together? I don't believe she is ready to throw in the towel. I've tried to avoid these conversations, but sometimes she brings them up. She doesn't believe there is hope (or at least admit to it), but I want to at least show that there is hope.
I will say that things are improving, but I keep shooting myself in the foot. I've tried so hard to become a better person, to learn all that I can, but lately I've been questioning whether I've hit my ceiling. Things seem so much more complicated now that these topics are being discussed.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4
