I hope your STBXH will stop the spew but don't hold out hope. You've rocked his world and he is not in control. He doesn't do that well.
I am glad you are telling that is one of the hardest parts of it because soon you don't know who knows what. I was sitting at a Softball game the other day and one of the moms asked me where my H was? (Mind you, that FGG has attended a few of these games and sat right beside me) I had to tell her we were divorced. She was blown away. She said right in front of FFG.... Oh, I thought this was your H's brother. Awkward and they couldn't look any different as I have upgraded! LOL
Make sure yours is an upgrade as well. Okay that's not nice. My BFF after the first bomb pulled me out every morning for a walk. It's good for the soul!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too