I think that's another reason why it is sort of easy for me to let WH be. He NEEDS to figure out who he is without my influence. I can't be with him if he hasn't done that. So. . . yeah.
I wish I could have the same attitude about letting WH be. I think I would if I didn't have to see him all the freakin' time! Hopefully you will be able to stay detached after the baby is born. I am glad you aren't stressing- right? You sound so relaxed. You are due in June, right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004