As my sister told me as I sat waiting for the final settlement the day of the divorce. Take the focus off the children. Treat it as a business proposition, cut and dry. Get the best possible deal and walk away.
Very good advice. That is how I try to haandle it with my ex. Aevery now and then, when I don't do what he wants, he will whine about paying spousal support. Get over it buddy, that was decided over two years ago.
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So, it comes down to priorities. And she's still wheedling you. Pushing your buttons, tweaking you to jump, change your plans while insulting you and your lawyer to the point where you're dumped.
You can't let her control your life. Finding child care for her days is her responsibility. What would she do if you were out of town.....oh wait you were going to be out of town and she pitched a fit. Sorry, not your problem!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
