Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

If OM dumped her on her ass so hard she got dizzy, she would likely turn back towards you.

Obviously right now she is strengthening her resolve towards the OM. The committment to you is lessening. The committment to him is growing.

Did the OMW reveal to the OM yet? I don't remember if that happened yet.

I have never heard back from her, and I have never called her to find out. My wife has not said anything about it, so I assume she has not.

[LSG]

I wish what you said would happen, but it does not seem like it is going to.

Thanks

[DaddyLongShanks]

Got a call from an attourney tonight, a female... She was like, so "do you really want to be with someone like that?". I said "no, and you definately did not push me to say this. I've been talking to alot of people in a similar situation". "Have you ever been able to change her mind - have you ever been able to convince her". "I say no. So I guess that means I may as well get the divorce".

My "current wife" forged her new mindset through her affair and resultant treatment of me like dirt. I'm tired of complaining. I don't keep around friends who treat me like that, I don't even have associates who treat me like that.

Anyway, I think many of us are getting the point.

I would say since you went through so much work you may as well ping OMW and see what she's thinking or if has done anything.

Continue your exit.

[LSG]

I have thought about calling her, but I just figured I would leave her to do what she felt is right.

I do want to call, but I did not want to seem that I am trying to get to her to tell the OM.

I know I need to do it.

[DaddyLongShanks]

What a wakeup call it would be if you screwed his wife...

[LSG]

It would, but I would never even attempt to do that. It is just not me. I do not want a revenge affair. I would not want to wake up with that on my conscience.

[DaddyLongShanks]

It was bad advice, but it is definately "shocking" and neither of them think either of you is bold enough to do it.

[LSG]

They might think I would do it if they found out I was the one that told the OMW about their A.

[Steve McQueen]

- Second, if a woman was staying home would you be even be asking this question? No.
Yes I would. I dont need to know anything about your wife or your personal situation to know its a hard cruel world out there.

[LSG]

Steve,

Yes, it is a hard, cruel world out there, and no one knows that better than me.