Definitely see the shark D attorney, it never hurts to get a second opinion and the best fighter for your sitch. This is not an area where you want to skimp, especially with your complicated finances.
If H is spewing at you through text then just ignore them. There's no law stating you have to respond. You shouldn't accept that type of behavior from anyone. End of story.
It snowed here last night so my motivation to get outside is zero. But I did go to the 6am PB class so that's something!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g