That really sucks....makes me think of one of my favorite songs which used to be my ringtone for Dan...
"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy"...
And you know, I have been emailing this past week with my first HS b/f. He is still hot....just sayin'! Granted a different scenario since I am divorced and his situation is messy (live in gf, mom of his 2 girls up and moved home to MN with the kids a year ago and keeps jerking him around with wanting to come back and changing her mind)...
People are inherently selfish. It's human nature. We just have to hold ourselves to a higher standard, expect more from ourselves than to follow every instinct/urge we get!