There was no fight on Monday (wha??? no "meltdown Monday??!!"
There was nothing on Tues. (Figured he would wait til the day before he had to do 4 days in a row at work).
This a.m. I got his car washed and ran a couple of errands. I did cut it close in time--but there is a discount on Wednesdays and it is now "routine" for me to wash and vacuum his car, and fill it with gas. He called and stermly reminded me he needed to be at work at 10 (normally he leaves at 9:15, and I knew I'd be back at 9).
So I rush through vacuuming and get home at 9:05 and he's walking out the door. And tells me, again very harsh/stern, that I need to sign up S for an online Spanish class (what is the rush??) and get him with guitar lessons over the summer. I have been trying to find a GOOD person to take lessons with--not just anyone. He apparently looked through the yellow pages and found a couple there. But I am wanting to go the band banquet next Tues and find a few parents or kids that take lessons and can recommend someone.
I may call a couple of the yellow pages people and ask their experience and perhaps I will find a good one there--otherwise, I am going to have something my H has none of--patience--and find the RIGHT PERSON.
His not having a fight this week makes me SUPER nervous. I don't want to think "they are over", and I don't want to be waiting for something really ugly. Ugh.
Class went well last night--I was the oldest.lol. But the kids are adorable in their "fresh college nervousness". The instructor kept asking "who thinks this, and who thinks that". I kept getting them right, so she started calling on me last.lol. What a nice ego boost!
We live in a fabulous country where we can keep going to school for as long as we want. I want a "do-over" in many areas of my life and I am so blessed to actually GET one!!
