Old Pilot put the links in an earlier post on this thread. Read everything that's there. It will give you some understanding as to what your H is going thru. It changed my mindset after I read them.
Dang, he's really fast! I didn't even see that post!
Okay, I'm off to read. I get the feeling I'm not going to be cleaning my house again today.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
