~He sees a Dr to get a physical exam & have his thyroid and free testosterone levels checked ~He get into IC and get on meds if they suggest he take them (the last one did & he didn't listen) ~He become gainfully employed. He measures his worth in monetary terms. ~He stops drinking and/or using drugs. Although he dienies drug use, it's in his history andIi don't think such a far flung possibility
He has to figure some of this stuff out on his own. You are going to come across as his mother that he wants to rebel against. Once you read the resources, this will make more sense to you. I see a lot of what you want from him, but what do you want for you. What are your goals?
