Oh, and the four things I need to see

~He sees a Dr to get a physical exam & have his thyroid and free testosterone levels checked
~He get into IC and get on meds if they suggest he take them (the last one did & he didn't listen)
~He become gainfully employed. He measures his worth in monetary terms.
~He stops drinking and/or using drugs. Although he dienies drug use, it's in his history andIi don't think such a far flung possibility.

My boundaries include not calling me names, cursing at me, or otherwise berating me. I will end any conversation we are having the first time he does. Goodbye & click.

How'd I do?


formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.