I don't know where this feeling comes from, but I'm getting that he's gone to see if OW is REALLY what he wants. And he may find MORE than he's bargained for...don't know how else to phrase that. In other words, I think MORE trouble than he thought it was going to be?
That has nagged at me for the past two days...I always hesitate to post what comes at me, because I'm always afraid the "human" side of me has interfered, but it wouldn't leave me alone, so there it is.
Girl, you're doing better than you think; somewhere, you've found some more strength.
That's always a good thing.
Keep praying your "hedge of thorns" prayer more earnestly than you've ever prayed in your life. I'm thinking it is making a difference.
Change is in the wind. Why I'm feeling that also, I don't know.
I'll come back to check on you.
Gotta get some sleep. I'm punch drunk, LOL!!
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
Mila, its sounds like you had a great day with your daughter for Mother's Day! You seem to be doing much better than I did when I was going through this in the beginning! Good for you!!
Have a great Tuesday!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
HB - I hope that your "feelings" are right...BOY...YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I HOPE
If this visit doesn't break it then I hope that it's at least the beginning of the end. Let him think, compare, evaluate what he is sacrificing versus what he is getting....it will likely take a while....in the mean time the "hedge of thorns" prayer will continue doing its work
Kissak, thank you...I did have a great Mother's Day and I'm feeling pretty good...back in the saddle again, ready for the next round
CW - thank you for your prayers
(((group hug)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Time will tell; I believe he will send an email that will mix business with personal stuff; you are to answer the business and skip the personal stuff. I'm not sure why I'm posting this, either..but you'll know when it comes; if he doesn't change his mind.
My prayers continue to be with you for the strength you need, and for your MLC'er to see the light and start turning back to the one who loves him.
God does have His hand in this situation, and is working within in answer to your prayer...watch and see.
Well, ladies, I'm a smart one; I'm on the side of the road in Missouri....out of fuel! I knew better than this, but thought I could make it; nope!..I'm 27 miles short of the truckstop I was going to get fuel at, LOL!!
I'm sitting here twiddling my thumbs waiting on a service call; expensive lesson, but I was glad I got ahold of somebody to help me.
There's YOUR laugh for the day! LOL!!
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
HB I am so sorry you were sitting there out of fuel. So nice of you to be helping Mila while having your own mini crisis. I think what you do for people on these boards is wonderful, as I've already shared with you on the alt.
Mila, I found the hedge of thorns prayer somehow a little while ago and prayed it for myself, but something told me that it wasn't time to pray it in my situation, so I stopped. I'm tempted to do it again...
In any case, I will pray it for you instead. I am really pulling for you now. You have your own cheering section on here.
