You haven't fully detached and you won't until you can say you feel no pain at her choices.
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Own up to your mistakes and try not to make them again.
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Look in the mirror and make changes for YOU
Look at the quotes above...think about them...absorb them.
Dude - You are expendable to your W - maybe (are you sure you know what EXACTLY is going on in her head). But the real question is are you expendable to YOU. Who are you Jasper? What does Jasper really want that can be controlled by Jasper?
As I have moved down this journey a few things have become very clear to me...
1) I own my own issues and fixes - ME no one else. No one these boards, just me. 2) I decide what I do in my life - ME no one else. 3) I decide when I move forward 4) I will not live with regret over another persons actions 5) In order to "make it" - I need to go through it 6) I am responsible for my own happiness 7) I am not responsible for fixing every one else sh*t 8) Here a hard one....I may never understand the reason why some people do the things they do. Quess what.... 9) This is not my issue 10) When you detach you allow yourself the space YOU need to really examine who you are. Are you co dependant? Do you feel that you are worth less than YOU really are? Are your thoughts about yourself tied to someone else opinion about you?
Jasper - I have said this to you before my friend...you have handeled yourself with a class and dignity that is commendable. Now take back your power my friend and keep on the journey this is.....BECOMING THE BEST PERSON YOU CAN.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
