"Detaching" is really hard! Just feels like we have such a superficial R right now - talking about kids/schedules, a little bit about work frustrations/challenges, but that's about it. Feeling like we're back in our "old" bad "roommate" M.
W did ask me if I wanted to have lunch w/ her today, and told her I couldn't do it today (busy)...am starting to feel a little discouraged that this will ever "turn around" (and honestly my resentment over being the only person that seems to care about the M is starting to build up). Feel like I'm back to being the nanny/homemaker and nothing more.
Am going to GAL with a friend tonight and even took the MC appointment off our family calendar so there's no "pressure" to go (and don't plan to mention).
The good news is that I am feeling the concern over what she's doing/thinking starting to pass (and not worrying so much about her, but me).
