How should I handle MLC direct lying?

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A couple of other questions: We are separated physically (I asked him not to come home after most recent D day). How should I handle it when he wants to come to the house to do yardwork, etc? I try to ask him to do almost nothing.

Also, Is it normal for the MLCer to withdraw for friends and family too? I know it is during certain stage(s). I assume the friends and family should not try to give advice, etc?

Thanks