WCW - yes, absolutely love the comment about the rock. My H's OW has said "why don't you get counseling for your low self esteem, why would you stay with someone that cheats on you." I feel like it's HER with the low self esteem... she's with a married man, and I'm a rock of strength and fortitude.
You nailed it. People who have not been here cannot understand.
BT - love the chick analogy, I may use that with my friends and family next time they say "why?"
