You know, when they come back, you hope that they have faced all their old issues, such as talking to the coach and manning up and going to the clerk of courts and asking for something. But, I'm sure that they don't face all of their problems. LOL
Does he tell you why he feels the way he does when he does these things? (or rather, doesn't do these things?)
It seems to always be centered around other people's perceptions of him.
