I just checked fares to Athens out of Kansas City....um, somehow comparing $1486 to 300 something isn't really fair is it? Wish it were cheaper. A few years ago I got a great rate to Denmark and then I was able to use my American Express points to knock it down to $200!! Don't have Amex anymore. Now I just have to fly on off season.
Hope everything works out. did you see your monthly horoscope on Priya? I think it is very fitting for you.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
After much contemplation you are ready to move forward within an arrangement or agreement. You may still have your doubts but you can see things are moving in the right direction so be patient with the process. What is unfolding now is solid but needs a little more time to develop. Just be transparent in all your negotiations and be willing to rewrite the rules. You’ve been through something before but the third time may just be the charm. Whoever said you can’t have your cake and eat it too was obviously not looking at your chart.
Wow!! I think I am marrying again, hope this time for good... LOL!!! K
I read that too.. I am marrying also :-) and after I asked him to move out for a while and then he moved out, third time we are living together, this time its for keeps, I hope too. Hope you get your swiss trip sorted.. I always wanted to go to Switzerland ! xx
K - I just read your thread & I feel for you, girl. I completely understand how you feel about things & I'm 3 yrs post-bomb/piecing.
Trust is a really hard thing to rekindle. And where you talked about respecting him as a man after all he's done, I completely understand! Oh, the horrible things he said during the D sitch! He even told me that our youngest was conceived one night when I wasn't really up to it & that every time he looked at our youngest, he thought about all the rejection, etc. that went along w/ our SL!
I'm still muddling through dealing with, living with, figuring out, whatever, whatever, all this stuff. I think it's going to be a lifetime process. I just remind myself that I don't want H and I to look at each other when all 3 boys are gone & wonder what the he!! we still have together, so I make sure I do the work that's necessary to try to keep our M going.
Yeah, it sounds like it sucks, like we had to do the work to get us here and we have to continue to do the work to keep things going, but essentially it is what it is.
Most of the time, my H still wants to just sweep things under the rug and forget everything and I think that's a normal guy thing. With a lot of things you end up having to decide whether you can live with them or not and, if not, what you can do about that.
I'll keep reading along.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Great post redhead. I see examples in RL of people who havent come here for help, but whose H have had A's, or there has been separations and whilst the guys seem genuinely relieved to be back in the M, they dont want to "talk it through" or go over what happened. They would rather forgot and move on.
The woman are left to muddle through and have little choice but to accept it, if they want to keep the man/M. Usually they do, because they love him, but I wonder about the longetivity of a few of our friends M where things have truly been "swept under the carpet". Better to do the work now, I agree.
Now I just have to fly on off season.