Originally Posted By: Lotus
Sounds like she is fantasizing about finding a new prince on a white steed. Does your wife live in a dream world? Don't take offense, plenty of women do.


I am not sure how to answer that. For 10 years, despite how I treated her, she treated me like a king in a sense. It is hard to explain and there is a list of example I can give but I took most of it for granted.

This was the first instance where I seen her do such as thing. Lately she has been looking at wedding photos of ours and putting them on facebook and then transferring them to her phone. I was completely sideswiped when I seen this. I don't want to say "it's not like her" because to be honest I don't know what is her anymore.

The only other thing besides this that I found odd , before this, was she sent song lyrics to herself, which are the following

Quote:

Till then, my darling, please wait for me
Till then, no matter when it may be
One day I know I'll be home again
Please wait (till) till then

Our dreams will live though we are apart
Our love will always stay in our hearts
Till then, when of the world will be free
Please wait for me

Although there are oceans we must cross and mountains that we must climb
I know every gain must have a loss, so pray that our loss is nothing but time

Till then, we'll dream of what there will be
Till then, we'll call on each memory
Till then, when I will hold you again
Please wait till then (ooh)



When she sent these lyrics to herself I found it odd. Then yesterday she was browsing wedding dresses and on a couple websites pulled up her exact wedding dress she wore for our wedding. Then she started to search for "I love him quotes."
Those things in the longer quote, I have done, but she does not seem to remember.

I am not sure what to do at this point, do I continue on with the same strategy, do I poor it on more or do I back off now giving her lots of space.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10