still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Has he brought it up again?
Has he done anything about it since that one talk?
Was he just feeling you out on it? You made it very clear that you did not want a D.

No, haven't heard anything else about D. But it has been 2 weeks. I don't think he was feeling me out on it, I mean he said "I have made the decision to go through with the paperwork." I didn't hear any room for "feeling me out." I do hold onto the memory of when he said "you've been thinking about this haven't you!?" when I showed him what I prepped! Because he responded like that, I felt like I caught "weakness" in his decision! Not to mention the crying he did.

I think your H is feeling some loss. Maybe stick with the changes you have made for awhile longer, they seem to be having an effect. Why? 1) He hasn't brought up D in 2 weeks, right? 2) He doesn't seem happy with the new arrangement.
Just thinking....

Thanks for point this out. I am so close to my sitch that I don't know if I am reading to much into WH's behaviors or no. You know how it's hard to see the forest through the trees or whatever the saying is! I am to continue on the same path then, and not add any more to the mix at this time! sigh-exactly what my therapist said when he said to keep it simple and just focus on the one strategy of continuing this visitation in a business like, friendly manner!