about a year ago my husband told me he no longer loved me last October he told me he may have never loved me at that same time he broke off all physical contact with me.My husband is not willing to try and make our marriage work he is not willing to go to counseling. He told me tonight he is thinking about a divorce. I don't know what to do when he is unwilling to try I don't want to be divorced. we have been married 19 years and have one child that is sixteen help how can I save my marriage