For such a young couple, you certainly have a lot of children! That caught my eye more than the love stuff, sorry. I think she is sorry, and I think falling on bad times with OM plays a part in that. Some people say she has to come back for the right reasons. I'm not hardline on that. She has to really want to come back, that is, want it enough to change. But I think people can reconcile for practical reasons, such as a decent lifestyle and a home for children, and later find the love. You should consider going to a Retrouvaille weekend before you two make any commitments to each other, or to other people. Healing as a couple can happen. Check the website, www.helpourmarriage.org to see when there is a Retrouvaille weekend near you and ask her to go with you. It will help both of you to figure out what you really want.
