If I did my job of getting him to desire me, why would he tell me he wants a D?
Has he brought it up again? Has he done anything about it since that one talk? Was he just feeling you out on it? You made it very clear that you did not want a D.
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Crap- am I making sense? Yikes- what things can I do to create a sense of loss that are not pushing or pressuring him to D? Am I doing it?
Sorry if i just added to your confusion on this. As you know, I am having difficulty with "how to be" as well. I think your H is feeling some loss. Maybe stick with the changes you have made for awhile longer, they seem to be having an effect. Why? 1) He hasn't brought up D in 2 weeks, right? 2) He doesn't seem happy with the new arrangement. Just thinking....
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
