Got a call from an attourney tonight, a female... She was like, so "do you really want to be with someone like that?". I said "no, and you definately did not push me to say this. I've been talking to alot of people in a similar situation". "Have you ever been able to change her mind - have you ever been able to convince her". "I say no. So I guess that means I may as well get the divorce".
My "current wife" forged her new mindset through her affair and resultant treatment of me like dirt. I'm tired of complaining. I don't keep around friends who treat me like that, I don't even have associates who treat me like that.
Anyway, I think many of us are getting the point.
I would say since you went through so much work you may as well ping OMW and see what she's thinking or if has done anything.