You still awake? Thanks for that extra info on your WAH, G. It is so interesting actually, and all helps complete the picture a bit more. So sounds like he's still struggling with maturity, how to grow up, who to be. I dig it. I remember being conflicted like that in my 20s, but by 30 it was over, I think. Him thinking about a fixer-upper when he's not inclined that way is so funny. Thank God you didn't buy one!! My H has some essential identity issues too - he states them as 'never having listened to himself', 'never being true to himself', 'doing what pleases other people' (this was the reason he gave for staying with me when he 'shoulda left years ago'), and that's why he calls his crisis, get this... a personal REVOLUTION! Oo la!
Fits in with the idea that I read somewhere that these immature WAH's are happy "playing house" until real responsibility comes along (ie. child) and then they think, oh no!, WHO am I? I better find out before I am locked in! Can also be put this way: H cannot equate being husband + father and happy at the same time.
