D - the story of your W shopping reminds me of my H. He has no interest in day-to-day existential tasks, no patience for anything and is very forgetful. I also think that their ability to concentrate on tasks like shopping is limited...
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO