I agree, BD, "R talk" not good, but his response, yeah! If he ever comes out of this, he could have some really great explanations to share. Honestly, and my expectations may just be way low for WAHs, but he sounds like he is semi-aware of himself! That's pretty good. I am HOPING my WH can become more self-aware, God help him!
As far as the OW stuff goes, I like what NM posted just right above here. My personal choice would just to be F-off until it was over and detach as best I could. Is that the best for future R, though? I don't know. And it's really hard to say F-off to your baby's father if you're seeing him all the time. So, it's really tricky. In sum, as always, I don't know.
