You have to prepare yourself--you WILL get a VERY negative reaction at first. You have to persist through that. It took FOREVER before my H would let me do anything for him =-even make him a sandwich! I just kept going back and forth between his LLs--touch and acts. Make sure to touch your H--not hugs just yet, but brush his arm or touch his knee.
Talk about it if you can't "do" it. Tell him you saw such and such that he would like and you wanted to get it but...(look sad now) Let him think if you guys were back together you would be speaking his LL HAPPILY.
But fight the negativity you will be getting. He'll still be intrigued.
