Originally Posted By: ken5140
Where do I find the Protection Phase letters?
Penny's site

Originally Posted By: WhatNow

NO propositions. She ends contact, writes a letter to OM saying such, and goes to CT w/ you or she gets out! THAT IS IT! No negotiations.


WhatNow, pardon my ignorance, but when you say "goes to CT" do you mean to go with me to get a protection order against the OM?

Sorry, I meant couples therapy. A protection order isn't a bad idea...at least for you, your home, and your kids. Can you do that? How does that infidelity law work? (3 years in jail certainly would fix her!lol)

Now here is my dilema and has been for quite some time. SHE WILL NOT LEAVE! And a Temporary Separation Order requires TONS of information, child custody info, division of property info, etc...It's a book. Do I just keep asking her to leave or what? I need help in this department.


I like the idea of leaving her bags on the door step or delivering them to OM. You may need to take some time off work.




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