Yes Piano you should let your H know he can stay with you at your mum's or visit. Gee do you think there is anything wrong with emailing it to him if he doesn't bring up the birth tomorrow?
I mean I just have a feeling he is going to want to talk about the plans for how you will contact him when D is being born or when to see her...at least it sure is common among most of the dads when it gets close to birth! And the fact that your H is coming around with a smiley and wants to go to the appointment close to the birth means he might be one of those dads too! So he could bring it up in conversation.
Gosh I have butterflies for you!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004