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I guess what bothers me is that H seems to be the one with "special needs". Sometimes he is truly over-reactive.

LMAO!

You know, imagine if you were going through the day today a couple of months ago before you were detached! Wouldn't it have been harder? Detachment seems to be such a valuable "attitude" to have because it does protect us from pain, and lets us see the WAS as they are, not taking what they do so personally! Don't you think?

Anyway, I hope you are able to relax this evening!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004