I don't bad mouth him, I don't disrespect him and I don't judge him or his actions around the boys...I know for a fact he doesn't show me the same respect, however it is extremely important to me that my boys see me take the high road as much as possible...
This is what they will take away from this awful situatiion. And they will always remember this.
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Along the path that changed to being true to yourself no matter what...My H and the troll can demonize me all they want, to whomever will listen....No matter what they say, the respect I garnered from my sons' based on my actions will never be taken from me and that is what matters the most to me...
Never.
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
My 14 year old sat with me on Saturday night and said the following to me - "I would rather live in a trailer on food stamps with you and my brother then with Daddy/OW in a house with a pool."
Well, now, that may be the first time I ever welled up reading one of your posts. You are handling it all so well and are truly blessed.
The material things don't matter Amen. amen, Amen!
You are fast becoming my hero
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
