BD, my WH was acting a lot like your H in regard to his excitement about the baby and wanted to be involved in everything (I was in disbelief- how could he be so excited to meet his son that he will leave every day so he could be with his whore?).
The difference was that he didn't call me just to talk or text me just to talk and never has during this separation. We DID have a blast together during our labor classes, shopping for S, going out to lunch, and even at many of our appointments, where we talked about stuff other than S.
BD your sitch is looking positive! After all, no OW, your H wants to talk to you and hang out...it is more than just being a dad!
Piano although my WH was excited to be a father, all I can say is that it didn't seem to make a difference regarding his A and our marriage. I hope you see what I am saying!
Last edited by newmama; 05/12/1003:36 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004