Hi FM...just checking in and again, so amazed at how well you are doing!

On what your H said about "I hate having a special needs child"

I don't have one and will not even pretend to know what having one is like but I just want to say that both my H and I have said in the past (not in front of D11 EVER) that if we would have had her first instead of S14 that we would have probably stopped there! I hate to even admit that....S14 was such an easy baby and is pretty laid back most of the time and D11 didn't sleep thru the night until she was 9mos old and is such a "girl"...has been Miss Drama Queen since the beginning and is now going thur puberty! My point is, that both H and I just said that in frustration...we didn't really mean it, well, at least I didn't...I am sure your H was just frustrated....

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing