Have never seen the vets talk about friendship when an affair is involved. It's much more all or nothing...until OW or OM is gone, we have NOTHING to talk about.
Would be interested though if we can find posts stating the contrary !
I was interested in the male vs female walkaway question too on Coach's thread... I didn't get what he meant by that men are more 'thinking'. More logical/rational? Therefore less sentimental/emotional?
The only diff I think between women and men as walkaways is that men are better compartmentalisers and also feel much less guilt about leaving their families and the destruction they cause when they have an affair. I read that on the Pyschology Today website which someone posted on my thread. It's my H to a T.
BD, apart from the slip into R talk , I'd say you're doing well!
