Im sorry! For my sitch I find that treating H with a MLC is what works best. doesnt mean H wants to reconcile... just helps me understand him and what he is going through and refrain from wanting to attack him
I forget about your H's OW. Trust the pros who know how to deal with OW. I was just offering some advice, but each of our sitchs are different and yet some of the same.
You gave me so much stregnth during all of my rollercoaster up and downs... and I think you are smart and brave and one tough cookie!
i think you know what is best and have the decisions already in your heart...
and remember i am rooting for you, and me and all of us on here... I am a hopeless romantic... always believe true love prevails... but i know when things go awry, it seems impossible to remember that. But tough love is a great tool, and its proven to be effective! So do what feels right!
Let us know what you decide about the doc appt. I'll be with you in spirit!
