That has got to be the nicest "throwing out" I've ever heard of. You are letting things run according to her timeline. If it were me, I would have packed her things up and taken them to the OM's front doorstep. Then I would have called her to say where they were.
I think it's the brazen acts of the man that get her excited. Personally I think you need to be more aggressive and get your balls back from her purse.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.