He did not seem to have much interest in the kids tho. DS13 saw him 3 times in 4 months: H went to 2 baseball games (out of 20) and asked him to a movie. In the last 2 weeks, he has asked to see him 3 times. DD's were a bit more demanding and asked to meet him for lunch more. But if they didn't initiate..nothing.
I am sorry to hear this. Was he more involved before the A? I do know some parents just don't connect well with certain ages. I am not trying to defend...I mean my S' grandpa does very well with middle school-highschool age but not so much with babies and kids! My mom does great with babies and little kids but when we turned 8 she kind of stopped spending as much time with us. So you see what I mean?
Gosh I think that this baby stage is toughest for me and I am looking forward to when he turns 3. The teenage years scare me but hopefully I will have some help from WH or my next great love of my life (lol!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
