So, today I did my own thing. Enjoyed our D, watched some tv, played with the pets, and spent time on the internet. H is used to me talking to him and trying to spend time with him until he goes out. I did none of that. Even when he asked me to (which he did), I explained I had stuff I'd planned to do while still being as pleasant as I could. If he talked to me, I'd joke back with him, but didn't try to keep things going. He seemed rather put out when he left.
SCORE!!!awesome job E cat! wow- you didn't sound like this was too hard for you...was it?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
