wording "ok WH, time to go now...I'm going to give myself a Brazilian bikini wax and the screams might hurt your ears" -- I vote for joking but firm...IMO your version sounds too "hurting"
about bagging the clothing -- don't put that on yourself. "H, I'd like you to remove your stuff by XXX date. Here are the times when it would work for me to have you come over and pack your stuff. Anything left over I'll assume it's for me to dispose of as I wish". In a friendly but firm way.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
