I just think that during some occasions, you have an opportunity to remind him that your goal remains constant - to have a happier life for both of you together while giving him free space to go where he wants.
This is very well put. Thanks for clarifying.
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He "may" be planning simply to talk. Open up the conversation if you can about topics he and you used to love talking about...it may lead to coffee or whatever.
Or not. Big risks have big rewards and big drops.
And that's what's scary, right? The risks and rewards and let-downs.