I think you're thinking too much about consequences. It's causing you to go into analysis paralysis.

First things first. Kick her out. She'll go running to the OM. See how he likes her 24/7. IMHO.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER