So I tell him today that I think this is a great idea about seperating and that it is the best thing for us to do. He didn't say a word, and then later he was acting very nice to me. I also met with a lawyer who believes I could get alimony based on my case, and I think around $1300 a month but that would only leave my H with around $1800 to live on, do you think that is fair? I mean I have to move in with MY PARENTS with 2 boys ages 8 and 4 and he will get to live in an apartment alone...doesn't seem fair to me anyways.