still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

OK and here is another thing. I still haven't bagged up his clothes. I actually started but then put them back in the closet. I haven't read The Secret but I was thinking that if I started acting like he won't come back then it won't happen.

ON the other hand, time and time and time again....we give up, detach, move on and THEN they come back! (if they ever do) SO will putting the bags out be helpful or hurtful toward my efforts to bust the divorce? I am trying not to think too much but it is hard for me to untrain my brain from analyzing.