OK I get that. I need to come across more confident. I'll work on that.
A question: Tuppy suggests strict NC when you separate. Do you agree and if so, then what do I say when she asks why we can't just be friends? I just told her because it hurts too much.
And if she does leave, what if she comes back to the house? How should I handle that?
I guess I'll have to think about how to divide up the kids time and the property now and make a proposition to her about it.
Because it hurts too much?
Dude, this man is BULLYING your wife, your marriage and your children into a BLACK HOLE... that's the best you have?
Ken, you are a MAN and MEN PROTECT their HOME... what would you do if someone broke into your home and started looting the place?
Would you pour him some coffee and ask him to wipe his shoes before entering?
WIFE : Why can't we just be friends?
YOU : You HARM CHILDREN... You are worse than a drug addict... Until you act your age and come to your senses stay away from me, our home, and our children. I am their parent now... YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED of yourself. When these kids get older and want to know where their mother went I will be sure to tell them how cruel and selfish you were ... not thinking about them or our home for one bloody second.
