I told my c today that h is going to go buy another motorcyle. she said "that is crazy he has no money saved for your son's college and he is doing that." She said you better go to your attorney about the financial agreement. She said he is being very emotionally abusive to me. I dont think this is mlc he has always live for the moment and not considered the consequences. She is a very good c. She said dont call him or do any work for him, focus on you and your son. She is also a guidance counselor at a high school. She has her masters in m and family counseling and came very highly recommended.