How do you deal with the HATE?

[kickme]

The way I see it, I have 3 choices..
#1. the MB way, kinda like swallow it all and be sweet as pie for 6 weeks, persue him (sweetly) and bite the tounge off.

#2. Attempt to tread water without making a splash. (but waiting for what?) Disengage and bend like the reed in the wind.

#3. Take a stand. and probably lose.

........yup. that's about it.